Isn’t the trajectory of a shared life determined in advanc每次看古装片听人说:愿闻其翔,都觉得怪怪的。? Get married, have kids, be like everyone else… According to Dietrich Brüggemann, who competed in Vary six years ago, 30-somethings conceivably have it all, yet they fail in their attempts to achieve their set ideals.